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Wife Should Submit
Wife Should Submit
Husbands, if you would love your wives as Jesus loves the Church there wouldn’t be any reason to fight, separate, or divorce. When that happens everyone wins, especially the children, causing Satan, divorce court, and divorce Lawyers to lose.
This message is written to all Pastors and Spiritual Leaders of the gospel of Jesus Christ. Accordingly to that gospel, you have been chosen to teach and instruct as well as lead his sheep. This message is also to individuals that are seeking to save, and strengthen, their marriage as well as those that are planning to marry. It is written to help save, and restore marriages which will save the home, which will help save souls. This letter is written for male and female, marriages only. If you are in a marriage with a person born a male and you too are male, or you were born a female and your spouse was born female, this letter will not help you, you have a greater problem that you must face. To get a divorce in the year 2008 is very simple and very easy, because the world society today is so very weak on morals, and integrity. The major reasons for divorces in 2008 are irreconcilable differences which is not acceptable in the sight of God. Pastors must begin to teach that there are no excuses other than death, with a few acceptances. In order for a marriage to work the wife must first submit to their husband. If a woman marries a weak, unsuccessful man, unfaithful, unemployed, off track, outer touch with God, whore monger, drunk, this can become a major problem with in the marriage. But if this is the case you must pray very strongly to get them on track before you fully submit. Fact is you should not have married this person, at that time, because they were not ready. Christ is engaged to be married, to this earth, but the bride is not ready. Rev. 19:7 let us be glad and rejoice, and give honor to him: for the marriage of the Lamb (Christ) is come and his wife has made herself ready. But divorce is not the solution in the sight of God. In this day and time, it must be taught and stressed to both future husbands and wives, very strongly before you “tie the knot” finding a compatible mate is critical to avoid a divorce.
Let’s talk about some basic rules regarding submission according to the scriptures. Ephesians 5:21 tells us that we are to submit ourselves one to another in the fear of God. That means all Christians. First Peter 5:5 instructs the youth to submit to the elders. First Peter 5:6 tells us to humbler ourselves under the mighty hand of God, that we may be exalted in due time. Marriage is very symbolic to the Church. Ephesians 5:22 clearly calls out the wives to submit unto their own husbands, as unto the Lord. Stop, and read that verse again, Ephesians 5:22, clearly calls out the wives to submit unto their own husbands, as unto the Lord. Ephesians 5: 23, tells us that the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church. Verse 24 instructs wives to be subject to their husband in all things. Ephesians 5:28, He that loveth his wife loveth himself. Ephesians 5:31, Instructs a man to leave his father and mother and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. Ephesians 5:33, says for the wife to reverence her husband. First Peter 3:1 says for wives to be in subjection to your own husbands, that if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation (behavior) of the wives. First Peter 3:6 Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, Eve done the complete opposite to Adam in the garden which was an act of total disrespect, almost instantly causing man to fall. Recall on the third page of the Holy Bible, the second chapter of Genesis in verse 18, God said that it was not good for man to be alone. In Genesis 2:22 God made man a woman, as soon as she was made the devil went after her to get to Adam, to get to God, to have his way, with Gods new creation, man with the Holy Ghost. One must understand that man was not made at the same time that the angles were, nor was Eve made at the same time that man was.
She, Eve spoke to Satan, in Genesis 3:1-5 after he, Satan said,” Yea, hath God said; ye shall not eat of every tree of the garden? Eve answered, “ We may eat of the fruit of trees of the garden: But of the fruit of the tree in the midst of the garden, God has said , Ye shall not eat of it , neither shall ye touch it, lest we die. Satan then said to Eve, You shall not surely die. Adam had told Eve the rules but she disobeyed, ate of the fruit then won Adam over with her conversation (behavior). He, Adam ate and all hell broke loose, and mankind suffered a great lose of power and relationship with the creator. God had to send his Son to put the Jennie back into the bottle, or to set the stage and make it possible for man to regain some of the power and relationship he lose in the fall in the garden. Paul wrote to Timothy in 1 Timothy 3: 11, speaks about a deacons wives that they are to be grave, not slanderers, sober, and faithful in all things. He even writes that wives are not to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silent. 1 Timothy 2:13-15 states, Adam was first formed, then Eve. Verse 14. And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression (broke God’s law). Verse 15, Not withstanding she shall be saved in childbearing, if they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety. What if the fall in the Garden had not happened, just wishful thinking?
My point is to avoid numerous divorces for irreconcilable differences the pastors, and leaders should be knowledgeable of the complete circle male and female, and the spiritual rule of submission. Husband should love their wives spiritually and naturally according to the scripture. They should explain how a woman can win a man over through their conversation (behavior) in other words; have her way, which could be right or wrong. Pastors should realize the importance of teaching and counseling, before and after marriage. Because a woman’s nature is to do just as Eve did, in the Garden, to disobey. She must understand if she submits that would allow the man to lower his armor, because his full defense would not be needed in the marriage. This will create a win, win situation. Keep in mind the man must be fully qualified to be a husband.
It’s not who’s smarter or even stronger but it’s all about obeying God’s law, and being in your proper place. And if we allow his law to prevail all things will work together for good. Our daily lives will be fuller and more complete. Divorce hurts everyone, the total family. A woman submitting to her husband is nothing to be ashamed of but rather it is something of beauty. When a wife submits and her husband knows in his heart that she’s going against her own desires and thus is obeying God’s will, makes a difference in the husband’s thinking, causing him to lower his defense. The husband will do all things within his power to please his wife. He will love her as he loves himself, just as Christ loves the church. You’ve tried it you way, just as Eve did. Now try it God’s way. Couples should read this letter together and agree to try it God’s way to save, strengthen and restore the marriage, helps the marriage last until death do you part, which was and is God’s original intension.
VYRON L. BROWN INTERNATIONAL MINISTRY
PHONE NUMBER 318 686-5381
CELL NUMBER 318-210-3219
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